Hello! Thank you for visiting Denver Cooperative Divorce & Family Mediation, LLC. My life’s calling is to help people who are caught up in disagreements of all kinds, while providing a calm and positive space to work through these conflicts.
To serve Denver couples and families to mediate cooperative solutions in divorces, child custody and other family dispute situations…resulting in more peaceful lives.
A Guiding Principle:
What is in the best interest of the children?
When contested issues between spouses/parents linger, it is helpful to return to this question and view the issue from the perspective of the children in your life. Marriages end, but parenting is a lifelong endeavor. Your behavior and actions, both positive and negative, are constantly being observed by your kids.
I am particularly interested in working with clients who wish to include their children’s voices in their divorce planning, especially with regard to the creation of parenting plans. Prior to mediation, I can interview children privately to understand what their ideas and wishes are for a workable parenting plan. I share this information with parents during mediation. Often, children speak more freely and candidly when having this kind of discussion with a professional who is not emotionally invested in family relationships.
I work with both parties to keep the focus of mediation on the present and future. Doing otherwise can become costly and time consuming. As a divorcing client stated, “This [mediation] was a successful experience…but we spent too much time hashing the past.” In mediation, we will also focus on putting both parties on an equitable footing as much as possible, in preparation for life after divorce.
Whether you are seeking assistance with an amicable divorce; or you’d like help to communicate better with your child; or your elderly parent now lives with you, and you’d like to create some guidelines for this new relationship, I can help you. I also work with couples who have already gone through a divorce, and need assistance with modifying current parenting plans, child support arrangements and the like.
Every situation, big or small, is an opportunity to learn how to communicate better. We negotiate with each other constantly — let’s work together to make those negotiations more satisfying for all involved! I look forward to working with you.
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